6 Proven Ways To Keep A Man Interested
You have been stalking this guy and he finally asks you out or you have even hooked up a few times. He is not only handsome but has everything else going on from his physique to his sense of humor. He is your definition of a keeper. However, this is not your first rodeo and since all others never seem to stick around you have a million questions juggling your mind like: how do I keep him interested? Finding a man to love is not easy as almost every woman can attest to. Keeping a man as well is not easy but it’s not rocket science either. Here are some of the basic principles on how to keep a man interested and have him keep chasing you.
The hot guy you have been eyeing has finally asked you out on a date. It is very important to make known your intentions to him on the very first episodes of your relationship. Men are human too. Some are shy and may find it difficult to outburst their feelings. And it is the 21 century where the waiting game will only do you more harm than good. This is the moment you need to check your ego at the gate if you have one. So it is paramount to let your guard down and let him know that you like him. Do not try to portray who you are not because once he finds out some of these lies forgiveness won’t comes easy. Be yourself right from the beginning. You do not want to build your relationship on a bunch of lies. Do not confuse this for disclosing everything on the first date. Honesty is therefore paramount in making him want to chase you.
2. The art of mystery
A little mystery never hurt anybody. But you must manage to pull the mystery stunts without being a freak. Men fancy mystery. Mystery is key in stirring up some excitement and will leave your man yearning more of you. Try out the new restaurant, ditch your nightgown for a sexy lingerie, spice up the bedroom activities. Bottom line is, do not completely settle for routines. Let each of your encounter or meeting have something new to bring to the table. Do not be an open book and pour out everything about yourself on the first date. Holding back some aspects of yourself will surely keep the romance flame alive and will leave him wanting to know you more.
Who hates a round of appreciation or that pat on the back congratulating you for something excellently done? Well, this is what your man needs once in a while. I as a man know very well that men love being appreciated and knowing that their efforts are being recognized. This is important because men do not just display their yearn for recognition and attention like ladies do. I would even term it as a turn on for them. There are many ways you can appreciate your man. Cook his favorite meal, book a couples spa or get him that tie or those cuff links.
4. Stroke his ego
Once in a while, your man may go through stuff that will demoralise him and this is a window of opportunity for you to boost his ego. Randomly making your man feel amazing like complimenting him on his looks, introducing and bragging to others about him are some of the simple things that will go a long way in keeping your man hooked. It is also very important to compliment your man in bed. This will certainly ignite any flames that had burnt down in him. The most important thing, however, is to keep it real with him.
5. Maintaining a distance
Hello, don’t move in after your first date, You will get too comfortable and within a short while, the monotony will make your man drift away. Maintain a healthy distance meaning you should not be too far apart. It also proves that you’re independent. Being clingy can easily make a man less interested in you. A man wants to be assured that besides your relationship you have a life, friends and work. Independence will get a man chasing after you.
6. Show him you have more to offer
If you’re hooking up with the guy be sure to show him that good sex is not only what you are out for. Be sure to let him know that you would like to know him more, spend time watching movies, go on a date or watch a game together. Do not be too easy going as this may make him take advantage of that and you’ll end up feeling used. This will ultimately keep him interested in you.
While every man is different from the next, there are several basic principles that will allow you to keep a man interested. By following the tips listed above, you will keep him interested far beyond the first few days and you can build a life and a future with him and sail into the sunset together.
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